Monday, June 17, 2013

Clean your head

How many times have you looked at the mess in your head and thought:

“ I should do some awesome revamping on this mess and love it up REAL GOOD” .

Or do you look at the mess in your head and just add to it; Tell it how awful it is to be such a mess, how stupid messes are, and how It has been messed up too long.

Hey, here is a message

Your head can’t clean itself. 

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Investing in Language 4


The language you use is a tool that can invite or divide. Adding fresh language to your everyday interfaces will give everyone more tools to gain insight, understanding, and wealth.

The new bit of language I got this week was during a meeting with a social media company and an author. Our team was doing a normal report to the client on how much progress had been made on their book project.  

The team-lead lights up in the direction of the client and asks; 

“Have you been doing something magical with your free time? “

The client was immediately intrigued. “mayyybeee”  was the reply

The team –lead dives in by producing details and a chart.

“Well your numbers are par-excellent and noticeably awesome.  Can we review your magical exploits?”

Everyone in the room was immediately sucked into the moment of triumph-  WE wanted to be magical in our free time.

It turns out the client had actually taken the advice of the team on how to build their own platform and it was paying off in numbers that impressed even the professionals.  I watched as the client was now eager to learn more and DO more on their own behalf because now they had an audience AND they liked being magic.
They had now become an investor be being acknowledged with language.  Every meeting the team-lead has with that client the word “magic” is the top of every conversation.

Language is a powerful investment into another.  

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Give the GOOD stuff

Have you ever been tired of broken stuff?

Tired of always having to settle for broken stuff? 

Most people living in poverty are.

So I try to give only GOOD STUFF to my community. 

One of the things I do is host a closet for women who are coming out of the homeless shelter. I have only a ten people at any given time that use the closet so it is easy to manage. If they come to class to learn more about how to get on a new track in life they get unlimited stuff from the closet.

"Take what you is right for you, I don't ever run out of stuff for this closet" 

And in all the years I have hosted it I have stocked it in the same way. 
I ask my friends to give their "good stuff".
Stuff that they want to go to someone who will appreciate the gesture. 
Because broken stuff does not allow you to feel not broken. 

Having a place to go and be rewarded with good stuff makes everyone feel a little taller.